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رقم العضوية : 31661  تاريخ التسجيل :  09 2010  أخر زيارة : 10-04-2022 (12:52 PM)  المشاركات : 6,353 [ + ]  التقييم :  132  الدولهـ  الجنس ~

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Yes I do... Yes what he did isn't acceptable...not all Call me crazy but I will ask you the following... Hasn't your experiences with him made you a different person in any good way?? Let me explain more.... If you had a perfect father or just a father who had nothing to do with and just gave you money.. this is an example ok... Bottom line a father that didn't give such touble and you had a stable or near stable family how would you have turned out?? Our experiences create us whether their bad or good... Some people because they've had an easy life they may mature late or almost never, they don't understand life, they don't know what difficult can truly be, they may lack understanding to how others may feel because they've only been through baby stuff, if they even have a true difficult or near that they may not know how to handle it at all like it's the end of the world when it may not be a true difficult situation,.....,.....etc Shall I go on, I can make the list longer.... Do you get my point.....???? so do you think your experiences haven't served you any good in how it built and made you as the person you are today?? Actually as harsh this MAY sound the more difficult things we live and go through starting from a younger age.. the more capableable we are later in life to survives or deal with things, ....,....etc Some people say if your in your twenties your young and you don't know what life's about or how difficult it can be or how deceiving people can be... Making the comment that only the older you get the wiser and the more you grow.... Not true... You don't grow by how old you are in years... A number how old your in my opinion is meaningless... It means zero... You don't grow necessarily by how many years you've lived since you were born... Its by your experiences... How rich are they.. How much have you seen, experienced, and lived.... Are you saying that i should be happy about how he treated me and i should thank him too The other question is can you not stand your father so much to the point if something big laqadar allah happened to him and he is very sick in hospital for an example would you think good he deserves it... I don't care... If your to find out that suddenly he is gone laqadar allah something tragic happened and he unexpectedly died... how would you feel? Will you be satisfied about your acting and way of dealing with him today.... What would go on in your mind.... You never know when it's the last time you will see anyone... You should always act like there's no tomorrow!!!! You never know.... it really doesn't matter anymore if something happned to him i will not feel anything . anything at all call me a devil or a demon , but that is the truth

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In that I don't blame him... How would you feel if you had two sons living under your roof who didn't talk to you... And you since a year ago!!! Always try to put yourself in others peoples place try to imagine how it would be or how they feel or think... For anyone... Put yourself in his place... You probably think he deserve his sons not talking to him or he caused that problem by his own hands... Try to give him a chance... Ignoring someone isn't the solution... He is your father not a stranger who you don't like how he treated you... Ignoring is making no effort and again taking the easy way out... It would much harder the other way wouldn't it??!! Guess what it isn't the solution and it made things worse... Running from difficulties never is the answer... On the contrary... You probably didn't want to struggle anymore had enough and said thats it I'm not talking to him anymore... You can't divorce your parents... Even in marriage you can't just not talk as a solution.... You can't it doesn't resolve things... Ok yes if you say you want space alone for a little I understand, but your saying since a year ago!!!! You exceeded it... You brothers have part in how things have become... It's all him who is responsible all alone believe me i have tried every possible way to make things better with him , but non of them is working and don't forget that i'm psychologicaly ill because of him so , i realized that the only way for me to get better "psychologicaly" is not speakimg to him and just forget him what eals can i do ? do you want me to keep trying with him until i become compley insane

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Try to give him another chance... I should say this to myself about my parents too actually... Family get chances... Outside family will I usually give them out like candy heh to people who really know me.. meaning not stranger or people I barely know... I always try to search and find so excuse giving chances for free until I seriously got hurt once, but that person she really didn't deserve it and did COST me an experience I will never forget... I still find myself doing that same thing heh... The point is parents and immediate family have what I will call the card of another chance... Being in the position of a Mother, father, sister, and brother is enough... UNLESS they have done something really really really big... I something really so wrong... I mean extremely i gave him so many chances , but it's all useless and i get what you are trying to say . the answer is : no